Sometimes we keep on living in the shadows of "what could have been" what if I would have taken up a certain career choice, or met different people , married a different person. Yes whenever I go through a down in my life I keep repeating to my self what could have been & build imaginary castles of what an amazing life I would have had if I would have studied something else, took up a different career or marry someone else, but the reality is my life is amazing, the career choice, family , friend nothing could have been better.
I need a constant reminder to myself now that all the choices & decisions that I made for myself are the best things that happened to me.
Nimisha
I need a constant reminder to myself now that all the choices & decisions that I made for myself are the best things that happened to me.
Nimisha
'What could have been' is something I, too, wonder at times, but unlike you, I have yet to be successful in convincing myself that I have done the best I could and, therefore, should have no regrets. I do have some regrets, I do wish I could have done some things differently, but I do, for the most part at least, manage to convince myself that there is no point in such idle thoughts. After all, the time that has passed will never return. So, I might as well try to make the best of whatever little time I have left in this my only chance at life on this planet.
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