What could have been

Sometimes we keep on living in the shadows of "what could have been" what if I would have taken up a certain career choice, or met different people , married a different person. Yes whenever I go through a down in  my life I keep repeating to my self what could have been & build imaginary castles of what an amazing life  I would have had if I would have studied something else, took up a different career or marry someone else, but the reality is my life is amazing, the career choice, family , friend nothing could have been better.

I need a constant reminder to myself now that all the choices & decisions that I made for myself are the best things that happened to me.


Nimisha

Pause

Sitting by the window of my room today I think of the future..How would it be after five years, where I would be , what  I would be doing, will there be new people in my life, who would they be, how my relationship with R would be, would I be able to take care of mum & B with honesty as I try to do today. Will I create a better & more meaningful life for myself.

Every person who has come across my journey till now , had something to offer, sometimes I learned and sometime I didn't, as the cloud of complaining really didn't let me see the opportunity. There were & are lot of people, places, situations & books who have changed me for good & bad without me realizing it at that time.

Is it easy for a person to be compassionate & happy everyday. Is it possible for me or anybody to wake up everyday & feel contented. I am trying to be on that path but I know it is easier to be sad than to be happy cause it the choice that I would have to make everyday of being grateful of what I  have and what one change that I would like to make very single day.

Some changes that I want to have in me are:

Being away from my cellphone, T.V. & internet for once a while: I am one of those maniacs who constantly have to touch and look around for one of the gadgets.

Read more of Gretchen Rubin, Robin Sharma, Khaled Hussaini & other authors that I like very much.

Connect to friends on personal level & not on FB.

Walk everyday

& decide on a Mentor.


Nimisha

Food for soul: Quote

“The clock of life is wound but once, and no man has the power to tell just when the hands will stop, at late or early hour. 

Now is the only time you own. Live, love, toil with a will. Place no faith in time. For the clock may soon be still.” 

One story which will stay in my heart forever

Okay a month back I updated on FB Page that I am waiting for 7th July for "Lootera" to be released, I saw the initial trailers and feel in love then and there. I am happy that the wait was worth it.

Love story of Varun & Pakhi made me speechless, didn't knew when my tears rolled out ( which is a rare thing to happen ) while watching the movie.Direction, acting , screenplay , editing, costumes, everything made this story so beautiful.

I cannot think of any one who could have replaced Ranbir Singh & Sonakshi Sinha for the story.

Vikramaditya Motwane - Respect ! You have done it again.

Love

Nimisha

Food for soul: Quote

God has planned happiness for each one of us at the right time in our life,

The only Thing is that-

He doesn't share his calender with us!

Enjoy Surprises !!


Love

Nimisha