It starts with curses, then bad behavior, then beating and
then … it never stops.
A girl marries with so many dreams in her eyes that she will be loved , taken care of , her
husband would be someone in her life whom she would look up to , he would be
the one whom she would want to see at starting & ending of the day for her
entire life. He will understand when she would be sad, he would wipe away all
her tears.
But why in some marriages she becomes only a provider, a
human being who is treated worse than an animal, she is beaten , thrashed and
abused. Who gives such an authority to a man , the so-called husband. Are we
females responsible for such inhumane behavior? Yes I believe to a lot of
extent. Not everyone is blessed to have a perfect marriage & a loving
husband but stopping the cruelty is something which is in the person’s hand
only.
Why a wife does not walk away from an abused marriage?
Because of the children? Because of the society? No, because of herself and her
insecurities, because she gets scared of getting labeled as a female with a
failed marriage or in some cases she assumes that there are possibility that
the husband who abuses her, beats her, would one day finally have a change of
heart, the evil inside him would die all of a sudden and she would be loved
again. Wrong, completely wrong, it never happens. A female who allows a man to
treat her like trash always suffers and she needs to break herself free from
this web of poisoned relationship not for her children, her family or for her society
but for HERSELF.
Marriages are made in heaven, need to re-think?
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